Man Philo

17/11/2025

KALENJIN TERMS AND THEIR MEANING

a) Kapyugoi- Name of son in-law by father in-law.
b) Botoiten-Name of father in-law by son in-law.
a)Nyoiten- Name of brother in-law by son in-law.
b)Sandanin-Name of son in-law by brother in-law.
a) Umama-The real name of your mother real or actual brother.
b) Abule –Name to your male cousins of your mother.
a) Mbojo – Name of your sister brother to you.
b) Senge – respect name by your father sister (auntie).
a) Tilya – Respect name of relative of same clan.
b)Konyiteniot– Respect name to close relative of different clan.
6a) Makigat – Respect name to great grandfather of either s*x.
b) Mochogoret- Respect name by grandparent to his/her grandchildren.
a) Korgetab-yugoi-respect name to daughter in-law by mother in-law.
b.)Iyoo- Respect name of mother in-law by daughter in-law.
a) Bamongo/Aboiyon- Respect name by son to his father.
b) Konut – Name of your father by neighbor when distressed.
a) Batiem-/kogo- Name of grandmother by grandchildren.
b) Chepyoset- Name of elderly woman by his husband.
10. a) Boger –Name of mother in-law to son in-law who request sheep to be part of dowry.
b) Bogine- Name of mother in-law to son in-law who request goat as part of dowry.
11. a) Bomori /agui –Name of any elderly man age of your grandfather also name of parent.
b) Batany– Name of grandfather of your father side.
c) Bokwo/Botich- Name of grandfather of your mother side.
12. a) Bakule- Name of agemates who were circumcised in the same home or menjo.
b) Botum- name of agemates circumcised same time but different homes.
13. a) Ornyon- Name of clan members by distantly related.
b) Manyun-Name of clan members but closely related.
14. a)Chonginiek- First members of a given age group or sets.
b) Kiptaru- Second members of a given age group or set.
c) Kiptoyotoek- middle members of a given age set.
d.)Kiptoin – last group of members of a given age set or group.
15. a) Yootik- first sp

09/11/2025

08/11/2025

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01/11/2025

Narcissists think when you are telling people what they did to you, that you are talking s**t about them.

No, that’s not what’s happening. You are not gossiping or trying to ruin their reputation—you are simply speaking your truth, describing exactly what they did and how it affected you. Every manipulation, every lie, every cruel action they took is part of your story, and sharing it does not make you the villain. In fact, by recounting their behavior, you are revealing the reality they worked so hard to hide.

The more you speak your truth, the more their own character is exposed. They appear small, petty, and selfish—not because of anything you said, but because that is who they really are. You have nothing to apologize for. You are not responsible for how they are perceived; you are only responsible for honoring your own experience.

You are reclaiming your voice, your narrative, and your peace. And the truth is powerful—it cannot be silenced, it cannot be twisted forever. Narcissists may try to gaslight, guilt, or shame you into silence, but every word you speak about your experience is a step toward freedom. Remember: telling the truth about what someone did to you does not make you cruel—it makes you brave, resilient, and unbreakable.

24/09/2025

"When a narcissist realizes you no longer care about them, they may become extremely dangerous. Their ego cannot handle rejection, and this is when their true nature often emerges. They may attempt to harm you financially, emotionally, socially, or even physically. They show little regard for the law or consequences, consumed by hatred and driven by a destructive urge to make you suffer."

This reaction is a manifestation of the narcissist's deep-seated need for control and admiration. When they're no longer able to manipulate and exploit someone, their ego is threatened, and they'll stop at nothing to regain power and dominance.

The narcissist's behavior can become increasingly erratic and aggressive, as they attempt to intimidate, belittle, and destroy their target. This can include smear campaigns, harassment, stalking, and even physical violence. It's essential to recognize the warning signs and take immediate action to protect yourself and your loved ones.

If you're dealing with a narcissist who's become increasingly hostile or threatening, prioritize your safety above all else. This may involve seeking a restraining order, increasing security measures, or distancing yourself from the narcissist's influence. Remember that the narcissist's behavior is not your responsibility, and you have the right to protect yourself from harm.

By acknowledging the narcissist's true nature and taking steps to safeguard your well-being, you can begin to break free from their toxic influence and reclaim your life.

02/09/2025

Letting Go of a Woman Who Betrayed You

When a woman cheats, forgiveness may come to your heart, but forgetting will never be possible. Every gift you gave, every moment you shared, and every sacrifice you made will return to your mind, bringing pain and anger. That is why you must break up with her before these thoughts drive you into destructive choices. Walking away is not weakness but strength because no man deserves to live in the shadow of betrayal.

Once you have ended the relationship, do not allow her access back into your life. Do not stalk her, do not answer her calls, and do not respond to her messages. If she tries to reach you, even by phone, ignore it completely, and if needed, change your number so she cannot disturb your peace. If there are children, confirm their paternity with a DNA test, but when the truth is revealed, do not let anger guide your actions. Accept it as part of the tests of life and move forward with wisdom.

Life will always bring trials and sometimes evil forces work through betrayal and heartbreak. You must not let these experiences destroy your spirit. Instead, protect your dignity and avoid those who have broken your trust. A woman who has shattered your heart no longer deserves your time or presence. Your greatest victory is to rise above the pain, keep your peace, and focus on building a life that no betrayal can shake.

26/07/2024

May God open for us doors of blessings! May we never lack.