16/03/2025
A RECAP OF UBCITE ALUMNI ASSOCIATION OSUN CHAPTER MONTHLY ENCOUNTER MOMENT
Chapters & Topics
March Encounter Moment Overview
The Thought, the Process and the Experience.
Haykay opened the March Encounter Moment, encouraging participants to invite others to join as they awaited guests. He highlighted that the evening would feature a conversational format, differing from previous sessions, and aimed to offer resources for singles.
A prayer led by Mr. Olawale Temitope(Bootojam) was offered to bless the gathering and its discussions.
* Engagement strategies for improving attendance in meetings.
Discussion on Relationships and Marriage
Haykay welcomed Mr. and Dr. Mrs. Gegeleso, noting their significant roles as alumni and resource persons. The evening's discussion cover various aspects of relationships and marriage, tailored for singles, those in courtship, and married individuals. The format include strategic questions and answers to foster an open dialogue.
* Experiences and lessons learned from long-term courtship.
Personal Experiences in Relationships
Dr. Omolola Gegeleso discussed her relationship journey, noting that she does not usually participate in conventional dating. She described how a guiding voice influenced her decision to pursue a relationship with her husband, who was a friend of her sister. Despite some challenges, she found the experience to be relatively smooth.
Insights on Long-Term Relationships
Dr. Omolola Gegeleso discussed the significance of determination in managing a long-term relationship, particularly during challenging periods. She highlighted that understanding and a clear commitment to the relationship were crucial in overcoming obstacles. Haykay acknowledged her points, emphasizing the importance of these qualities for others to consider.
* The importance of determination and understanding in relationships.
Discussion on Accountability and Thought Management in Various Environments
Haykay addressed the importance of accountability and thought management, particularly in school and church settings. He invited Mr. Gegeleso to share his perspective on how he processes thoughts and manages challenges in the environments. The conversation aimed to explore the factors that contribute to successful outcomes in these contexts.
Personal Experiences in Relationships
Mr Gegeleso discussed his relationship journey, revealing that he did not pray or engage in spiritual exercises when selecting his partner. He highlighted the turbulence in their courtship due to contrasting personalities and external doubts from friends, but noted that they managed to find balance in their differences.
Insights on Relationships and Personal Growth
Haykay initiated a discussion on the unexpected lessons learned in relationships, prompting Dr. Omolola Gegeleso to reflect on her experiences with her partner. She noted that it is common to discover new aspects of a partner over time, which can be surprising. Mr. Gegeleso encouraged open dialogue among participants to foster understanding and growth.
* The significance of open communication and honesty in relationships.