22/08/2026
My dear married sister,
Every marriage has got challenges trials and issues.
Stop making small things big. Dont let social media be your point of reference.
Most things on this street are fake and camouflage. There will never show you the other side of the carpet. Especially if you and your spouse are in ministry, it doesnt matter your Grace or anointing, respect and Honour him.
Never you create an Atmosphere of competition with him in this regard. Men already are competitive in nature and this is for leadership reasons. There were wired that way, dont follow them in that line. Stop the power struggle with him.
Listen if you donot fight to grow together, You maybe drifting silently apart.
Sister fight on your knees not with your mouth and attitude. Pray Always and be patient with him. Remember his heart is in the hands of his maker. GOD, report him to his maker whenever matter arises. Be intentional about not letting go so easily. You can't be patient with other men out there but inpatient with your own husband. You talk to him anyhow especially in public because you think , you are also an ordained pastor. That's an error, you are completely out of order and you are tampering on his ego. He may not tell you but he's love for you will become distant and locked up.
Remember my dear sisters, we are help meet not his boss. Just like the Holy spirit is our helper, He doesn't force Himself to us. Sometimes we are so disobeying but yet he's patiently waiting ✋️ 😌 and walking with us.
That's a fruit of the Spirit patience. Women usually because of their right senses are faster in speaking and thinking than men 🤔 God made it that way so we can help them to mult-task not in control 😉 and belittling them.
I hope this 🙏 helps somone on this platform. Becoming one together ❤️ is not a days , months, and even year thing. It takes DECADES AND MORE.
What you despise and see as trash now is another Woman's prayer request. PONDER!!
PATIENCE AND SELF CONTROL THROUGH THE HOLYSPIRT will do the work....
