Gabriel Al Romaani

Gabriel Al Romaani Gabriel Al Romaani

Gabriel Al Romaani is a qualified Positive Psychology Coach. He is the founder of goldenruleappeal.com and co-founder of ICRAA.org.

Islamic Psychology Coach, 20 years of experience
Educational Consultant
As seen on HUDA & PEACE TV
Muslim Alpha Men Course

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https://pipcoaches.com Born in Romania to a Christian family, later migrated to Canada in 1998 where he undertook his secondary education.

04/09/2026

Read it and pause where you need to so you can understand. Jizak Allah Khair ʀᴇᴀᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴀᴘᴛɪᴏɴ
All the liberal haters don’t see it because that is what they want, but all you others you need to really rewind about ten years and tell me that we had the same phenomenon happening. You support them because you say they bring you to like Islam more; what Islam? Where they make you laugh and joke?

You prayed istikharah.Then you waited.Nothing happened.So you prayed again.You asked someone you trust.Then someone else...
04/09/2026

You prayed istikharah.

Then you waited.

Nothing happened.

So you prayed again.

You asked someone you trust.

Then someone else.

Then someone else.

You watched videos.

You searched online.

You made another du'a.

And somewhere along the way...

You started looking for a sign.

Maybe something unusual will happen.

Maybe you'll suddenly feel completely certain.

Maybe Allah will remove every doubt from your heart.

Maybe someone will say exactly the words you were waiting to hear.

But days pass.

Sometimes weeks.

And you're still standing in exactly the same place.

Not because you don't have options.

But because you're terrified of choosing the wrong one.

What if I regret it?

What if I marry this person and it doesn't work?

What if I turn them down and never find someone better?

What if I leave this job and struggle financially?

What if I stay and waste another five years?

What if I move?

What if I don't?

What if I start?

What if I fail?

So instead of making the wrong decision...

You make no decision.

And sometimes indecision feels safer because you can tell yourself:

"I'm still waiting for guidance."

But there comes a point when seeking guidance can turn into avoiding responsibility.

Islam does not teach us to know the future before we act.

It teaches us to seek Allah's guidance...

Take the proper means...

Make a decision...

And then trust Him.

Look carefully at what Allah tells the Prophet ﷺ:

فَبِمَا رَحْمَةٍۢ مِّنَ ٱللَّهِ لِنتَ لَهُمْ ۖ وَلَوْ كُنتَ فَظًّا غَلِيظَ ٱلْقَلْبِ لَٱنفَضُّوا۟ مِنْ حَوْلِكَ ۖ فَٱعْفُ عَنْهُمْ وَٱسْتَغْفِرْ لَهُمْ وَشَاوِرْهُمْ فِى ٱلْأَمْرِ ۖ فَإِذَا عَزَمْتَ فَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى ٱللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يُحِبُّ ٱلْمُتَوَكِّلِينَ

"It is out of Allah's mercy that you ˹O Prophet˺ have been lenient with them. Had you been cruel or hard-hearted, they would have certainly abandoned you. So pardon them, ask Allah's forgiveness for them, and consult with them in ˹conducting˺ matters. Once you make a decision, put your trust in Allah. Surely Allah loves those who trust in Him."

(Qur'an 3:159) (Quran.com)

Look at the sequence.

Consult.

Decide.

Trust Allah.

Not:

Consult.

Consult again.

Ask twelve more people.

Wait until you're 100% certain.

Search for signs.

Then maybe decide.

Allah says:

فَإِذَا عَزَمْتَ

"Once you make a decision..."

Then:

فَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى ٱللَّهِ

"Put your trust in Allah."

Tawakkul becomes especially meaningful precisely because you don't know everything that comes next.

You did your homework.

You asked trustworthy people.

You looked at the facts.

You prayed istikharah.

Now perhaps it's time to move.

And understand something important about istikharah.

You don't necessarily need a dream.

You don't need to see a particular colour.

You don't need some extraordinary feeling to come over you.

You are asking Allah:

If this is good for me, facilitate it.

If it is bad for me, turn it away.

Then you proceed while trusting the One who knows what you cannot see.

And yes...

You might make a decision that doesn't turn out the way you hoped.

But even then...

Allah is still Allah.

He can redirect you.

Teach you.

Close a door.

Open another.

Bring something from that experience that you could never have anticipated.

Your responsibility isn't to know the future.

Your responsibility is to make the best decision you can with what Allah has given you today.

So if you've been stuck on something...

Take out a piece of paper.

Write down the decision.

Write down what you actually know.

Write down what you're merely afraid might happen.

Separate facts from fears.

Consult someone trustworthy if you genuinely need advice.

Pray istikharah.

Then...

Make the decision.

There comes a moment when you have to stop standing at the edge asking Allah whether the ground will hold you...

And take the step while trusting that whatever happens next is still under His control.

You don't need control over tomorrow.

You need tawakkul in the One who already controls it.

Your brother,
Gabriel Al Romaani

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04/09/2026

Ibn `Abbas said to me, “Shall I show you a woman of the people of Paradise?” I said, “Yes.” He said, “This black lady came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said, ‘I get attacks of epilepsy and my body becomes uncovered; please invoke Allah for me.’ The Prophet (ﷺ) said (to her), ‘If you wish, be patient and you will have (enter) Paradise; and if you wish, I will invoke Allah to cure you.’ She said, ‘I will remain patient,’ and added, ‘but I become uncovered, so please invoke Allah for me that I may not become uncovered.’ So he invoked Allah for her.”
Narrated by Bukhari 5652

03/09/2026

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02/09/2026

This case has done more than expose the weakness of the non Muslim legal system and the degeneration of morality in the west. It had also exposed the modern woman and her degeneration and sadly some of our Muslim sisters are following the same direction. Mark my words and you will see that slowly our sisters are caching up with this degeneration. Not because I said so, because they don’t care about what is right and wrong anymore but they care about how they feel. They don’t care about what the hadeeth days they care about how they feel about it. The measure for morality even in Islam for many women and many to follow is how I feel about it and today I don’t feel good because of my hormones or my husband did this or Dawah bros did that or someone hurt me. So away with Islam and enter my version of things.

31/08/2026

This is the outcome of a woman starting to do Dawa posting about Islam and then slowly slowly slipping of course with the participation of her husband who has more shyness than her and speaks more like a woman than her. She sounds like a road man a ghetto dude and he sounds like he has more shyness than her. All the posts seem to be curated to gain followers and in the process of doing so she loses herself and lets her Tongue do the work a Tongue that’s going to be questioned on the day of judgement. Now I want you guys were clapping for her and encouraging her to think about this. Think about how she speaks think about what she does think about her demeanour as a woman and if you think that’s okay well may Allah guide all of you. There is a difference between someone having issues fighting with issues trying to improve and someone who does not care and uses everything to just boost their post and their followers at the cost of their hereafter and I know they’re gonna come back and say oh look at this look at that they’re so rude. The rude one is her if you actually look at the word rude well she is the definition of rude no matter how cute you guys think she is.

31/08/2026

One of the fundamental mistakes of the modern Muslim woman is that she wants a good man to be married to, but she’s not really concerned with listening to what kind of Wife does a good man want. And due to this mental flaw that’s been indoctrinated in her by the TikTok algorithm she most likely won’t get married or at least married to Goodman.

30/08/2026

This evil man blackmailed so many dayees and I exposed him many times. The funny thing is that no one wanted to help and support from the dawa scene. I reached out to many to help and expose this evil coward. I waited in London two days to meet him face to face but he is a coward and just ran. I called him for mubahala to call the curse on the liar and he ran away. I still have all proofs and all discussions of this narcissist coward and his huge support of sisters some even niqabis (you know who you are and I know who you are) and of course of simp men whose whole life revolves around teaching women s*x lol. Ye I talk about intimacy maybe 5 to 10 percent of my content but this guys livelihood is on female or**sm education. One from Al Azhar and and other one from God knows who he studied with. But the real power house is the sisters. O ye and they have a Dawah hit list and they are in full support of the infamous AYah look at me I wanna leave Islam today and I think Allah is they/them - you know that one. May Allah expose these evil people. You should see how they were threatening duaat with MI5 and immigration to Uk issues. Yahoooooodiii tactics. Hmmmm

29/08/2026

Is your wife taking your money by using the Kafir law? Did she go to some imam that believes that’s her right? Don’t worry her money is harram. Yes you provide for your kids for sure this is your responsibility but not for her. Confused? Book a counselling session with Gabriel Al Romaani at pipcoaches.com

28/08/2026

Why are some women ok with it and others not? What do you think? The first sister said I don’t care while the second said it’s his right but I’ll put it in the contract I’m the one and only. Why such difference? The Polygyny Master Class is almost ready and will have the first chance to take it after which it will be released on galromaani.com

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