29/06/2014
Loving someone is not Haraam in deen islam.. But performing wrong acts during that relationship is haraam i.e meeting in private , touching, hugging etc etc... If you both are keeping it halal n saving your love till marriage n have control over your nafs.. Then there is nothing wrong with it.. You should ask her parent that you want to marry their daughter n should perform the sunnah of nikkah (not engagement it doesn't make her your mehrum) do nikkah with her.. Thats the best way to keep it halal.. But if that marriage comes about as a result of an illicit love relationship, such as when they meet and are alone together and kiss one another, and
other haram actions, then it will never be stable, because they committed actions that go against sharee’ah and because they have built their lives on things that will have the effect of
reducing blessings and support from Allah, for sin is a major factor in reducing blessings, even though some people think, because of the Shaytan’s whispers, that falling in love and doing
haram deeds makes marriage stronger. When it does not! This is the only Reason why Love marriages fails.... KEEP YOUR RELATION HALAL....
