10/12/2026
Learning to Fly: The Power of Independence
The stage of flying (Ya) represents a significant milestone in a woman's journey through life.
After learning to crawl, stand, walk, run, and climb, she has acquired the knowledge, skills, experience, and confidence necessary to spread her wings.
Flying symbolizes three important accomplishments:
🦋 Autonomy: She can think independently, make informed decisions, and choose her own direction in life.
🌱 Self-sufficiency: She has developed the abilities and resources to support herself, meet her needs, and navigate life's challenges without unnecessary dependence on others.
🌟 Achievement: In traditional Hmong society, a woman's transition into adulthood was closely associated with marriage and the assumption of her social and familial roles as a wife, mother, and member of her husband's household. In modern society, education, perseverance, and experience have expanded her opportunities to develop her potential, pursue personal aspirations, and achieve accomplishments beyond traditional expectations.
Flying does not mean that she no longer needs others. It means that she can stand on her own while choosing when and how to collaborate, contribute, and support her community.
The ability to fly is not given at birth. It is developed through learning, effort, experience, and determination.
And even when age eventually slows her steps, the knowledge, wisdom, and achievements she has gained remain part of her legacy.
True empowerment is not simply giving a girl wings. It is providing her with the education and opportunities to develop the strength, confidence, and freedom to fly on her own.