06/12/2026
During Cornell Reunion weekend, alumni, students, colleagues and friends gathered to celebrate the extraordinary legacy of Professor Cindy Hazan and her nearly four decades of teaching, mentorship and scholarship at Cornell.
Best known for Human Bonding (HD 3620), one of Cornell’s most beloved and influential courses, Professor Hazan helped generations of students better understand relationships, attachment and what it means to connect with others.
During the celebration, former students shared memories from her classroom and reflected on lessons they still carry with them today: from attachment styles and relationship dynamics to insights that continue to shape their friendships, partnerships and family lives.
As alumnus Ian Shea ’96 reflected, “What I found most interesting wasn’t the research. It was what her former students remembered.” Years after graduation, alumni still recalled lessons from class, including attachment styles, the “Four Horsemen” of conflict and the importance of putting more “yum” than “yuck” into a relationship.
Throughout the event, alumni shared stories, reconnected with classmates and mentors, and wrote heartfelt thank-you notes expressing their gratitude for the impact Professor Hazan had on their lives both inside and outside the classroom.
“Professor Hazan has always brought a certain type of magic into the classroom,” said Kathleen McCormick '16, Ph.D. ’25, who studied under Hazan as an undergraduate and will begin her teaching career in psychology at Colgate University this fall. “I was struck at her retirement celebration by the way her teaching and her love for her work and research has resonated across so many years and lives.”
A pioneer in attachment research and a beloved teacher and mentor, Professor Hazan’s influence extends far beyond Cornell. But perhaps her greatest legacy can be found in the thousands of students whose lives, relationships and careers were shaped by her teaching.
Thank you, Cindy, for helping generations of Cornellians better understand the bonds that connect us! ❤️
Photo Credit: Galib Braschler