Constellating Change

Constellating Change Constellating Change

To knowingly create change, allowing a deeper purpose to unfold. Be still they say. "It is part of a family tree. This knot is sacred.

Jadina Lilien MFA CPF
Artist and Professional Facillitator

Suddenly, all of my ancestors are behind me. Watch and listen, you are the result of the love of thousands. Linda Hogan/Chickasaw Indian Poet

There is a story behind the story of each of our lives. In this work artist, filmmaker and facilitator Jadina Lilien guides us on a Me- connected- to We approach to creativity and change. Some of o

ur greatest difficulties are unconsciously part of our love/loyalty to someone in our lives and families, even going back hundreds of years.

“In consciousness there are possibilities that do not exist at an unconscious level.”
Llewellyn Vaughan Lee

Through this skillful work, we can gently pull these dynamics out of the shadow and into awareness. The work is done in an individual or group setting, in a space that is both sacred and timeless. We are continuously living the ancestral life, reaching back for centuries, we are satisfying the appetites of unknown ancestors, nursing instincts which we think are our own, but which are quite incompatible with our character; we are not living our own lives, we are paying the debts of our forefathers." Carl Jung

According to the work of Family/Systems Constellations there is a field we live in that can cause us to limit our lives, based on past generations. When looked at consciously, constellations will show what the difficulty looks like now, and the entanglements that are causing lack of vitality and movement. By witnessing this, your perception and experience shifts revealing the connections that always is there. There is a knot in our life that represents the difficulties, struggles, the pain , the beauty from the past into the present. Gather the stories, the threads, by accepting what is, the mystery comes alive. The process Jadina uses is based on the dynamics of the Systemic Constellation work inspired by Bert Hellinger via the Zulu tribe, the Focusing Process (focusing.org) a technique taught by Gene Gendlin and the original thought lived by Indigenous Peoples connected to the sacred intelligence of the earth. Also included is the creative process and the understanding of how we are creation here to create. Why a coach? When a skilled facilitator witnesses the process change happens quicker. For artists, healing professionals and anyone who wants to open up to more possibilities. SEND an EMAIL for SESSIONS. Artist and Facilitator: Jadina Lilien

Her creative training began at the Museum school in Boston studying art, theater and photography. Afterwards being asked to participate in ceremonies with the Polish Theater director Jerzy Grotowski lead to an MFA from New York University in communicating stories through filmmaking and directing. Jadina has over 20 years experience coaching using the International Focusing Process [Gene Genlin], and since 2011 adding the professional training from the Bert Hellinger Institute. Her work with teacher Llewelyn Vaughan Lee since 2000 includes teachings on meditation , dreams and the shadow and symbolic work of active imagination [Karl Jung]. Exhibitions of her films and art have been seen in Europe and the United States. Recently, her screenplay Ghosthorse was awarded a New York Foundation for the Arts fellowship. NYFA is also the fiscal sponsor for the exhibition of her art and companion book project Butterfly Against the Wind which will be published in the Fall of 2016. Available in person in New York City and Guilford Connecticut, also by phone and Skype. Contact me for group workshops. The world sings us into being and we are its song. The process is also excellent for artists, writers, creatives who want to give attention to the creative process. It can include understanding, developing or resolving challenges with projects including the dynamics of decision making. The principles are also valuable with challenges that arise with the systemic group dynamic of a business or group collaboration. Constellation work can also be used to see how our involvement with specific social issues are connected to our family and ancestral system, giving power to our passion for change by linking the personal with the collective. For more information CreativeConstellations.com

For Those Called to Create!In the Springtime @ the Catskills, Hudson Valley, Ulster County Galleries.Online Dates beginn...
03/03/2026

For Those Called to Create!

In the Springtime @ the Catskills, Hudson Valley, Ulster County Galleries.

Online Dates beginning Sunday March 29th
10am San Francisco / 1pm N.Y. / 7pm Paris
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"We inherit not solely from our family bloodlines but also from spiritual and creative ancestors, who also shaped the pa...
02/26/2025

"We inherit not solely from our family bloodlines but also from spiritual and creative ancestors, who also shaped the paths we walk. Often, this deeper unknown lineage exerts a greater influence that touches our souls, informing our sense of meaning. For me, the mystical nature of creativity was a legacy passed down from those who came before. To bring this to life required engaging with a force beyond myself—a relationship with something infinite. Yet, the patterns of family and the collective can be hindrances restricting qualities that do not fit within their framework. Overcoming these limits requires consciousness, healing and a relationship with something greater. My art merges realms of creativity and quantum physics, weaving together the ordinary and the extraordinary—a collaboration with a great mystery."

Jadina Lilien is an award-winning, multi-media artist working in photography, film and experimental theatre.

Welcome to those who have recently joined this page. You probably were one of those baby horses, first in many ways brin...
04/18/2024

Welcome to those who have recently joined this page. You probably were one of those baby horses, first in many ways bringing new branches to the family tree.

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Your family and ancestors are your people yet you may be the outsider the maverick the one evolving the world.

Contact me if you are interested in a Constellation Reading. It's not therapy. It's a way to respect and honor why you are here.

It's a Constellation & Divination. For more information let me know what you would want from the reading.

With love,
Jadina

Page 122In writing about Karl Jung in Catafalque by Peter Kingsley"Is that individual knowingly "related to something in...
04/06/2024

Page 122

In writing about Karl Jung in Catafalque by Peter Kingsley

"Is that individual knowingly "related to something infinite or not?"

"Maybe it will be best if I simply stay silent about his absolute certainty that, in the people who came to him for healing, one thing was more essential than anything else: a deeply religious attitude, the sense that it's all for the sake of something far greater than ourselves. Otherwise, everything that in theory could go wrong is guaranteed to go wrong."

He continues on about helping people step out of their personal dramas, "so they can find themselves in history and at least experience a real "sense of historical continuity" -- because without that sense of historical continuity no genuine or enduring healing is possible..."

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I've noticed that people that come to me for a Constellation Reading, who grew up in North America, often don't feel part of history personally or collectively. They don't feel the continual spiral of life that they are part of. Though since this generational relationship is so natural, it can easily be recognized. And then your life changes. And if you also are changing "...for the sake of something greater..." then we as people can be part of the world spinning differently, rather than this present strange wobbling that's happening.

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BECOMING SPRINGa Family Constellation Workshop March 27th 5-7 Wednesday Constellation Workshop  In Person @ 60.00April 3...
03/20/2024

BECOMING SPRING
a Family Constellation Workshop

March 27th 5-7 Wednesday Constellation Workshop In Person @ 60.00

April 3rd 6-8 Wednesday Zoom @ 25.00

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The one who asserts himself over others – is he winning? Or does it show after a while, that other people and other thin...
01/23/2024

The one who asserts himself over others – is he winning? Or does it show after a while, that other people and other things prevail over him and he has to submit to them?

Here I am having in mind particularly a man and a woman. Is it possible for a man to prevail over a woman and not realise in the end, that way he loses rather than wins? Or if the woman has prevailed over the man, what has she gained and what have the children gained?
Conversely, what is the gain for children and parents when both of them prevail in their own way, with mutual respect, thus growing together with love? Prevailing together by mutually giving and taking without losing anything of their own. The 'own' is half of the whole in a couple relationship. By putting our 'own' above our partner, the whole is at risk for everyone involved.
The whole we can only win together. We prevail with it through mutual respect, because giving in with respect makes the common whole prevail. It prevails with love.
The same holds true whenever competition is involved. Both sides grow together when they take from - as well as - give to each other, making it a win-win situation for both.
There is a beautiful saying: The wiser one gives in. Has he thus lost the other one or the other thing? By giving in he won them both. He or she had perceived the whole.
Every victory comes at high costs, for the winner as well as for the loser. The hand outstretched towards reconciliation brings the conflict to a halt with the greatest possible win for both sides.
With what do we prevail in the end most importantly? We prevail with what is common, with what connects us and completes us most deeply.
What moves us to such contemplation? Our own losses. The price we have to pay because of our self-centred attempts at prevailing.
How can we avoid these losses? We avoid them by realising we are only half and remain only half in any relationship, like in the one between a man and a woman, where both only become whole through a common child.
All conflicts follow this pattern, first winning and losing and - in the end – the common peace. The peace which connects both in common activity and in common gain. The winner gains from the loser. The loser serves the winner with his losing. When they shake hands they see something that makes both of them grow, free of any conflict.

What is it that makes them grow? It is the common success, for a man and a woman the common child. It is the common service given to the whole that makes them grow beyond themselves. How? With love.

Bert Hellinger, New Stories

Bert Hellinger founder of Family Constellations

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Every seemingly isolated thing is in reality the presence of the Endless.  From the book Divine Names
12/16/2023

Every seemingly isolated thing is in reality the presence of the Endless.

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