Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate

and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

05/29/2026

At Riding Far, we’re intentional about every aspect of the horse’s welfare, including what goes in the feed tub.

Karen Engel explains the benefits of Triple Crown StressFree and how a forage based, highly digestible approach supports the whole horse.

Because the work doesn’t just start under saddle.
A lot of it starts long before that.

05/28/2026

"The son of 2 shrinks....."

I never really liked to teach. Well, not until recently.Early on, I didn’t feel like I had much to offer, so I would ove...
05/27/2026

I never really liked to teach. Well, not until recently.

Early on, I didn’t feel like I had much to offer, so I would overcompensate. I’d try to leave someone with a month’s worth of work in an hour, and none of it would stick. I would see an opportunity for change, then try to force that change to happen. In horses and in life, that doesn’t work, but it can be hard to remember when you’re green and lack faith in the process.

It’s been the long list of teachers in my life who have brought me to where I am today. They inspired me and sparked the excitement of sharing information, to the point where teaching has now become one of the most important parts of my daily life.

Each day, my assistant, Averi, and I spend a lot of time discussing the big picture, the process, and doing the work. Each week, I teach as many as six lessons to owners of horses in training, along with four or so more to those trailering in.

The joy I find these days is not in feeling like I know it all or needing to put what I do know onto others. What I love is being able to nurture relationships, plant seeds, and watch them grow over time.

Every day, I try to practice a beginner’s mind. I put pieces together for myself and study in the lab of daily life, applying what I’ve learned from teachers and books with the horses I get to work with each day.

When I teach, it is the joy of learning that I wish to spread. The love of horses. A sense of gratitude and awe for the life we are fortunate enough to live.

If I have been fortunate enough to cross your path, whether in the past, present, or future, know that this is my wish.

Take care and enjoy the ride.
~Justin

05/26/2026

The hot weather is coming back soon - what’s on your checklist?

One of the reasons we create intentions each week is because they give us something to come back to when the week starts...
05/25/2026

One of the reasons we create intentions each week is because they give us something to come back to when the week starts feeling messy.

Sometimes a small shift in focus can change the whole feel of a week.
(And occasionally… improve mane management too.)

Today’s Facebook Live ended with a conversation about “riding the edge of trouble,” as Ray Hunt called it - or simply growing the size of the “playground” we ride, work, and live in.

𝗗𝗿. 𝗣𝗮𝘂𝗹’𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗼 “𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗹𝗮𝘆𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱.”

Earlier in the live, Justin shared that he’s been building a checklist of exercises and progressions for the training horses — something to help owners and riders keep sight of the process once the horses go home.

𝗝𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻'𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗼 “𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗲𝘆𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗶𝗴 𝗽𝗶𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲.”

What’s your intention for the week ahead?

05/25/2026

Thanks for joining our exclusive live broadcast. Feel free to share your questions and interact with other participants in the chat.

Psych Saturday: Mystery and SurpriseOn the shores of Lake Champlain, just south of Burlington, Vermont, sits a 1,400-acr...
05/23/2026

Psych Saturday: Mystery and Surprise

On the shores of Lake Champlain, just south of Burlington, Vermont, sits a 1,400-acre farm known as Shelburne. I am generally not one for traditional sightseeing, but my wife and I visited Shelburne during our New England honeymoon adventure almost 38 years ago.

I honestly do not remember much about the visit, with the exception of one experience. As you drove or walked from place to place on the farm, it became an adventure in discovery. Around each bend and over each hilltop, I was greeted with a new, beautiful bucolic vista.

I later learned this was intentional and the work of Frederick Law Olmsted Sr., the undisputed father of American landscape architecture (think Central Park and the Biltmore Estate). He laid out the roads and paths along the natural contours of the land to alternately hide and then reveal vistas. In doing so, he created both mystery and surprise within the landscape.

I have often wondered why this experience has stayed with me all these years while so many others have faded and been forgotten. I think it has something to do with the fact that, through his work, Olmsted revealed something magical about the natural world. That experience of mystery and surprise deeply connected with my lived experience, not just in the physical world, but in the mental, emotional, energetic, and relational worlds as well.

The hard reality is that we cannot see what we cannot yet see. We experience only what is directly in front of us, what we are attending to in the present moment. When we are faced with disappointment, sadness, anger, grief, or pain, it can feel as though that is all that exists. The same is true for joy, happiness, excitement, and the whole range of positive emotional experiences.

I am grateful that I can enter into these experiences in a deep, present, and mindful way. At the same time, I do not want to get lost in them so completely that I lose my sense of mystery and surprise. I want to remember that there is always more to experience over the next hill and around the next bend, another opportunity to connect with wonder and awe in the twists and turns that shape our lives.

When faced with struggle, we are sometimes tempted toward hopelessness and self-pity. When faced with great joy and excitement, we are drawn toward celebration and self-congratulation. In either case, it is helpful to remember that we are simply taking in one more vista in the landscape of a long and rich life.

This is not meant to douse water on our joy or dismiss the reality of our pain, but rather to preserve a sense of awe in this magnificent journey where tomorrow remains a mystery and every turn holds the possibility of surprise and wonder. ~ Paul

PC - Erin Gilmore Photography

05/21/2026

One of the biggest things I took away from riding with Tom Curtin last weekend was the difference between correcting a behavior because we don’t like it… and helping a horse find a better place mentally and emotionally.
That doesn’t mean letting horses do whatever they want.
But it does change the mindset behind the correction.
Instead of:
“I don’t like that behavior.”
It becomes:
“How do I help this horse feel better inside and find a better answer?”
Horses feel the difference.

05/20/2026

It’s important for our horses to get out and see things. We get to know how emotionally regulated they are, and the unfiltered strength of our communication. It’s easy to get results in a vacuum. We must test ourselves and our horses in the real world.

05/19/2026

When relationships start feeling strained around competition, I think the first step is a self-check.
Am I showing up in a way that aligns with my values?
Am I engaging in a way that’s respectful of other people?
Am I contributing to the tension?
And then, if the relationship matters, the next step is a conversation.
I think a lot of people were never really taught how to move through conflict without turning it into a power struggle.

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