23/07/2025
Live the Legacy: Mandela Month
Student Feature: Onthatile — Becoming Through the Journey
By: Zusakhe Hlatini
Onthatile’s first year at Nelson Mandela University was more than just an academic adjustment—it was a turning point in discovering who she is and who she’s becoming.
Coming from a home with strict parents and a firm structure, the sudden freedom of university life was both liberating and overwhelming. “I was surprised by the extent of freedom I had,” she recalls. “Growing up with an early curfew, even staying late on campus felt like a taboo.” That freedom quickly turned into a test of self—where choices mattered, influences were loud, and identity felt like something fluid.
She describes it as an identity crisis—being presented with the freedom to become “anything,” including someone far from the person she had been raised to be. “It wasn’t cool or ideal to be the version of me I grew up as,” she admits. “The challenge was learning how to hold onto myself when the world was offering me so many other versions to become.”
In navigating that challenge, Onthatile made a conscious decision: to not abandon the morals and values she was raised with. “Even though I grew up sheltered, that doesn’t discredit the principles my parents enforced,” she reflects. “They continue to shape and positively impact my life today.”
Through deep reflection and daily reminders, she chose to anchor her identity not in perception or popularity, but in purpose. “My mistakes, my failures, and people’s opinions don’t define Onthatile. They mold her. They shape her into the best version of herself.”
Inspired by Nelson Mandela’s legacy, she’s learned to see education as a transformative tool. “His words, ‘Education is the most powerful weapon you can use to change the world,’ push me to always pursue lifelong learning,” she says. “I intentionally put myself in spaces where I’m not the smartest or most skilled, because that’s how I grow.”
One defining moment in her university journey came when she stood on a podium at the Social Consciousness and the Futures Certification Ceremony, speaking in front of students, facilitators, and programme leaders. It was a full-circle moment that helped her contextualize her purpose. “I used to feel silly saying I was ‘meant for people’—like it wasn’t enough. But that programme helped me understand my role as a responsible global citizen and active member of South African society. The essence of my being is to live up to my name—Onthatile, ‘someone to be loved.’”
For Onthatile, leadership is rooted in humility. “People follow someone who makes them feel seen and heard,” she explains. “A good leader is someone who’s constantly learning from others, someone with integrity who seeks the wellbeing of others before their own. That’s how you build trust, unity, and the spirit of Ubuntu.”
Through courage, reflection, and a deep commitment to her values, Onthatile is not only becoming a leader—she’s becoming herself.